My stepmother has banned me from the family. Can she legally keep me from going to my father's funeral?
07.06.2025 20:30
JUDGE: just sits there - it’s total silence!
7) As the days were drawing close, they contacted me because the Hospice alerted them that they do not think he would make it within the next 24 hours.
He flips through and then tells the Deputy, Make copies of those three and when you come back, count the trash here (pounds on the pile) just the cases only, I do not need the dockets, just how many have been already! Walks out of the room and slamming the door.
JUDGE: But I like the way she talks! I like her thinking!
I was already replacing the locks, and for some reason, the devices (remotes) could not be accessed without damaging it. So what I did was “deactivated” the Garage door, so you would have to manually open and shut. I was very happy with the Security System.
22) The Judge found it and immediately revoked it, and had the papers faxed, so we could put a closure on the deceased. I made 5 copies, and handed the Officer 2 copies (the Executor got 2 - a spare just in case), and the Officer went to the 2nd wife and said “Ma’am, your court order has been revoked and denied.” Handing her the copy!
So I went downstairs to the basement, the Deputy unlocked the door, and I was inside. Of all the years in my life (even up to this date) I have never-ever seen so much “terrible, horrible, and totally asinine” piles of court cases from that crazy 2nd wife.
Fast Forward - almost 6 months later. We were in the process of returning the funeral home back to the family (it was a dispute which was why we took over the business). I was handed the paperwork, the authorization of the body of xxxx to be exhumed!
Well that Probate Judge up there in xxx County in New York was “literally full of poop”, he refused to acknowledge the “court injunction” because “to him, this was filed before the update”. The probate Judge here had repeatedly told him “Estate is CLOSED”. That Judge up there said “I WILL SAY WHEN IT’S CLOSED!” Really? That guy was a total idiot!
HELLO? I NEED AN ANSWER NOW! IF YOU REFUSE, I WILL HAVE YOU BOOKED WITH FELONY CHARGES!
13) The Officer approached me, and I told him and provided proof. That Officer then told her “Ma’am, we cannot do anything, you are not the Executor or Executrix, she wasn’t on the will, and the decease’s children are handling it. I am sorry.”
No idea what happened there but it looked like a chair was thrown to the camera (?) everything went “blank”. The Executor, she asked “Was there a scuffle?” No one had a clue. We remained in the conference room, it took about 15 minutes before the phone call came in.
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MA’AM, WHAT’S YOUR OBSESSION WITH COURTS?
Those Officers were surprised to see one of their own standing there waiting for her. Because the first thing he said was ‘OKAY MA’AM, PUT YOUR STUFF IN THE CAR NOW! YOU HAVE 5 MINUTES TO DO IT!’
HER: YOU CAN’T DO THAT!
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(We leave.)
While they bought it in → I went through the piles of dockets and found them (handing them to another Bailiff to hold). There was a pretty good size piles on the table there which I told the Bailiff, I think we should move this table to the middle of the room in front of the Judge so you could grab one and hand it to him. (Apparently I wasn’t aware the Judge was right smack behind me - and again, he startled me) EXACTLY! DO THAT PLEASE!
His attitude was “WHAT NOW?” I explained to him, and he reviewed everything (documentation and will) and then called for the Probate Judge to come up to his Chamber (Office). It’s true Judges cannot give legal advisories. But both told her to PUT me as a “CO-EXECUTOR” as they could see that the 2nd wife was creating massive problems!
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HER: YES, THAT IS HOW I GOT HERE.
MA’AM YES YOU DO HAVE THAT RIGHT, BUT SO FAR YOU HAVE FILED OVER 400 DOCKETS OF NONSENSE ALREADY!
ME: HUMOR ASIDE, I WILL SPEAK ON HER BEHALF, SHE WOULD LIKE A DEFINITE PERMANENT INJUNCTION IMPOSED ON XXXX (NAME) TO PROHIBIT FROM ANY INTERFERENCE OF THE ESTATE OF XXXX (NAME). WHICH MAY OR MAY NOT INCLUDE THE PROPERTY OR PROPERTIES OF THE DECEASED. (I then hold my finger up - Wait)
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(People laughing)
ME: She has to surrender the garage remote right now!
We didn’t even get HALF of her stuff. The Officer knew what kind of car she was driving in, and said “she won’t be able to take anymore stuff.” So we had 4 Contractor bags full of clothing, a box of makeup and jewelry, and the small kitchen bag of “unmentionables”.
12) This was my first upfront personal experience with the worlds biggest snot! She was ordering his body to be removed and sent to the cremation! They refused (which was correct) to permit her to have his body so she called the Police!
JUDGE: Holy crap! What’s all this? (rummaging through dockets)
HER CLOTHING, HER SHOES, HER MAKE UP AND HER VEHICLE WHICH IS A (description - make, model, year, VIN, tag number) (pauses - turns to the Clerk - Is the title on the vehicle in her name or both? Clerk checks, “Her name only.”) AFTER SHE LOADS EVERYTHING UP, SHE MUST LEAVE AT ONCE!
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JUDGE: Oh well, the property is not awarded to you! It now belongs to the children of their deceased dad.
HER: Yes, Thank you! Yes, I want that woman permanently injected … (stumbling)
He then sees the piles of dockets and said “How much are waste?” I told him “NO idea, I hadn’t counted it yet, but it’s these stacks (touching tops) here.” This stack here are all current. (touching that little pile.) and the one I just printed out is the latest one, I still have about 17 or 18 more (cases) to go through!
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YOU ARE NOW GIVEN A PERMANENT INJUNCTION! YOU WILL BE PROHIBITED FROM FILING ANYTHING AT ANY COURTS AT ANY TIME! I DON’T CARE IF IT WAS LEGITIMATE ANYMORE OR NOT! YOU WILL NOT BE PERMITTED TO ACCESS ANYTHING! PERIOD!
25) I had to call the Chief Judge and once again, he had to revoke and deny! I then said “Your honor, should I Baker-Act this woman? She’s not a threat to herself, but she’s a threat to others especially when one’s deceased!”
AFTER ALL PAPERWORK HAS BEEN COMPLETED.
She finally stood in the middle with three Bailiffs, One to her left, one to her right, and the other (BIG GUY) behind her.
5) Because the oldest daughter (1st born) is the Executor of the Estate, and the “final say so” (not the 2nd wife). The Judge had to revoke the original restraining order and told the 2nd wife that SHE could not bar the children from seeing their dad.
JUDGE: ON THIS DOCKET (READS DOCKET) DAY DATE YEAR . THIS ONE WAS DENIED, YOU PUT IN A COMPLAINT FOR CUSTODIAN OF A CHILD, WHICH WAS A DOG MA’AM. A 4 LEGGED CRITTER, THAT BELONGED TO YOUR HUSBAND’S 3RD CHILD AM I CORRECT?
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8) The youngest (son) arrived to select the casket for their dad and while the middle (2nd born sister) was finalizing the tombstone (their mom lost her battle with cancer) and gladly caught the spelling error and we got that fixed (it’s Josef not Joseph), and since their Dad served (Purple Heart). Purple Hearts are permitted to be engraved on the tombstone for no charge. She okayed everything. It was done.
(People laughing)
HER: Where would I live?
Then he called for the hearing.
16) I finally went up to the Court House and had an appointment with the Chief Judge, he reviewed everything and basically stated “W T F?” He contacted the Probate Judge and yes, they were aware of the 2nd wife causing all kinds of problems! HE FINALLY gave approval to proceed with the funeral and advised “do not let the decease’s 2nd wife know about any of this”.
14) She stormed off furious, and apparently went to the Court house to put a FREEZE on everything! Not sure what she told the court, but the Judge approved of it. So the funeral service and all had to be CANCELED due to the Court Order!
HER: No I have not!
(interrupts)
HER: YEAH I THINK I COULD.
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JUDGE: FULL ATTENTION
This had to be one of the MOST horrible situation I’ve ever encountered! WHY?
HER: BUT MY ORDERS
HER: I am going to need money
JUDGE: calls for the woman…
It did not end there or end very well. In fact, she must have had all this “planned” well ahead of time. Because of the decease’s oldest daughter, she knew me very well. Ran into serious problems with the Estate.
HER: This is mine, it’s the only one I have.
The other Officers approached him, and he told them, they read the Judicial Injunctions (The Executor had the copies). She almost couldn’t pack it all in! (It was a small luxury two door vehicle). She was so upset that “her clothes” were messed up, all thrown inside instead of “nicely folded”. Until the Corporal (who escorted her) said ‘BE GLAD YOU GOT CLOTHES PERIOD. GET MOVING!’
JUDGE: CAN YOU JUST GRAB IT ALL AND PUT IT INSIDE OF A GARBAGE BAG?
HER: But I live there!
JUDGE: THANK YOU! YES, I CAN SEE YOU’RE RATTLED.
HER: No, she only gets her personal items which are her clothing, her shoes, her makeup, and he awarded her… her own car. That’s it.
Her shoes went into the bags - and I thought Marco’s wife was nuts with shoes. This woman had far more shoes than 10,000 women living out there! I mean I own 5 pairs of shoes - Boots, hunting boot, flip flop, dress shoes and tennis shoes!
He glances over me and advises me to come forward, and he said “Bailiffs are at your expense, please bring all the dockets in my room”. The Bailiff who was with me earlier, walked up to me and I said we’re going to need at least 7 or 8 of them to pile all those on the carts. He agreed, and ALL of us went downstairs, placing dockets on the cart, then going upstairs. The Judge ordered a 10 minute recess!
JUDGE: SHUT UP! NEXT ONE?
20) The POLICE stopped the funeral service! Apparently the 2nd wife now hired another Lawyer, and this biggot filed a “FULL POSSESSION OF HER HUSBAND”. Which meant an upcoming hearing was scheduled in 14 days!
JUDGE; YES YOU HAVE THAT RIGHT BUT YOU DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO CLOG THE COURTS WITH HOW MANY ALTOGETHER? OH NEVER MIND, 500 AND SOMETHING AND NOTHING WAS EVEN APPROVED. YOU TRIED TO DIVORCE YOUR STEP CHILDREN AFTER PUTTING AN INJUNCTION ON THEM FOR SOMETHING THEY DIDN’T EVEN DO.
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(Bailiff comes with a City Police Officer)
The Officer, Executor and I were there. I asked her what kind of doors were on the property and if there were any security system - I told her that go on her mobile phone via dashboard and contact the Security System to revoke all of her privileges and I will help change the alarm code. While you’re heading there, I am going to swing by at the Hardware store to get the new deadbolt and doorknobs with new keys. And if you want, all remote access to the garage, do you know how many are there? She said 2, I then said I am going to reconfigure the system so if she has a spare or any other remote unknown to us, she won’t be able to gain entry!
(Showing him on the Computer (it was being printed out), and look at this one here (docket to my left) and this one here (docket to my right). Explain?
ME: Your upcoming hearing with this woman by the name of xxxx. The legal dockets she’s filed the past 8 months. I haven’t found any reason why all this nonsense. Right now, take a look at this one:
24) I have NO EARTHLY IDEA what this 2nd wife was doing → but this was the straw that broke the camel’s back. She ordered the body to be “exhumed”, and her freaking Lawyer filed it, and I have no idea why the Judge approved of it.
The Judge then advised me to if all possible to attend, because he could not, it would become a conflict of interest. That I understood.
9) Then their dad passed, and the body was transported to us. It was already paid for, and the deceased wanted the full embalming and to be dressed in his Military dressage.
She then was ordered to leave.
11) I happened to be nearby so I was there in less than 3 minutes. Once I arrived, there was now 3 Police Officers.
AND I WAS STILL ON IT! One of the Judges (who also has to deal with the woman) apparently the hearing was today at 1, and he learned I had never “clocked out” so he went down to the basement where the Deputy unlocked the door and I never heard anyone open the door, I was going through the dockets in the computer system, had a pile of dockets to my left and right, flipped over, and highlighted.
I asked her for the court docket information and case number if all possible. Well, it’s rather strange, because like with her, they both stemmed from New York and not locally.
I then told the Bailiff to have xxxx to go to the conference room please. (Did I have authority to do that, not really.) She came into the conference room, and I told her, she can sit back and relax, the Judge will handle it and once he’s done with his part, I recommend that you request the Judicial injunction against xxxx (2nd wife) from any interference of the Estate, the Judge will award it to you! I will raise my hand up and wave you when it’s time for you to speak!
HER: SILENCE
JUDGE: Do you have the will on you?
JUDGE: YOU KNOW WHAT? MA’AM (asking for the Executor) - COME OVER HERE. DO YOU KNOW WHERE HER BELONGINGS ARE?
28) That was when I handed the Officer the Baker-Act, he gave her multiple opportunities to volunteer to go, but she refused which left him with no choice but to handcuff her and take her away.
HE WAS SO FURIOUS! He told me make these copies right here and you (Deputy) bring them to my chamber, I am going to put an END to this!
ME: Your honor? One more thing!
HER: BUT HE WAS MY HUSBAND. IT’S OUR LIVES. HIS KIDS CAN GO (BLEEP). HIS KIDS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH OUR LIVES!
(both arguing again - and she’s really pissed off the Judge)
JUDGE: YES, BEFORE THE PAPERWORK IS ALL GIVEN TO YOU, BAILIFF PLEASE WALK WITH HER TO THE CARE TO RETRIEVE THE REMOTE
HER: Your Highest?
I was on the other line with the Executor and she was stating they were just about done before the Probate put a freeze on the Estate due to a “Challenge”. She was telling me she had no idea who this woman was, they didn’t have anyone by the last name of xxxxx.
JUDGE: (realizes his error) Sorry about that. I truly thought she would be done for!
As for the Probate hearing which would be held at the courthouse locally via Video Tele-conference between here and New York. Both Judges were advising the Probate Judge (in New York) of the what was becoming a problem person within the Judicial System.
OKAY MA’AM, YOU CALLED ME A LIAR, AND BEFORE I MAKE ANY DRASTIC DECISION HERE. I AM GOING TO PROVE EVERYONE IN THIS ROOM BEFORE I PUT ANYTHING DOWN IS THIS.
He then said “DO YOU REMEMBER THE CRAZY ONES?” I said, the contest of child which was a dog one? Yeah. He then said put them 2–3 of the crazy ones on top of the piles on the table! He wanted the BEST INSANE ones on top!
HER: Yeah, umm (blank - glancing over me)
Thankfully the Secretary was there, and she pulled out the simple docket, and she placed me as the Co-Executor and it was notarized and filed.
THE EXECUTOR IS ABSOLUTELY CORRECT. WHAT I AM GOING TO DO IS, HAVE HER GO TO THE PROPERTY, WITH THE (umm - asks Clerk if this property was city or county? - Clerk, City of xxx - Thank you) CITY OF XXX OFFICER PRESENT. SHE WILL BE GIVEN 30 MINUTES TO RETRIEVE HER BELONGINGS OUT OF THE PROPERTY WHICH MUST BE AS LISTED:
I can STILL hear him as if he just YELLED AT HER while I was typing this!
ME: Your Honor may I?
She then proceeds to return to her seat which the Bailiff gladly escorted her.
The Executor was the defendant and the Plaintiff was the 2nd wife. She had a new set of Lawyers. But the Judge did something → HE TOLD THE LAWYERS - STEP ASIDE PLEASE AND YOU, (reading the name) COME STAND RIGHT THERE IN THE MIDDLE.
JUDGE: YOU GUYS CAN GO AHEAD AND GO. WE WILL NOT RELEASE HER UNTIL ABOUT (LOOKS UP TO THE CLOCK) HALF HOUR. SO THIS WILL GIVE YOU A HEAD START TO PACK THE STUFF UP AND IT WILL BE READY FOR YOU TO SWING BY TO PICK IT UP!
THAT WOMAN CAME UP (BAILIFF GLADLY OPENED THE GATE) AND SHE SERIOUSLY GRILLED THE WOMAN FOR BEING A “BLEEPY BLEEP BLEEP” and I love to the fact that she was really grilling her. She chided her for wasting everyone’s time, the Judge’s time, and that pile of dockets was too much! And went so far to say “IF YOU WERE MY DAUGHTER, I’D SMACK THE (BLEEP) OUT OF YOU, UNTIL COMMON SENSE IS BACK IN YOUR BRAIN. THAT IS IF YOU HAVE A BRAIN!” (Then she turned to the Judge) Thank you your honor, it was a pleasure to release my mind!
I recognized the woman’s first name, but her last name was different (going through the archives) and then I tasked the employee to go to the storage and pull out this file folder. And he went, and returned with it.
The Bailiff has the remote. She’s on the verge of tears. Judge waves him to hand the remote to the Executor.
Deputy decided he would go to the other room and print them out so I could get this thing wrapped up. He then returned with a portable table, took one pile and began counting, and then got lost, and had to start again, I handed him a dry erase to mark a I for every 10 cases. He got up to a little over 400 cases and became frustrated, he wasn’t even three quarters done yet! He then said. I WILL BE RIGHT BACK!
(reads - then makes notes)
XXXXX XXXX XXXX (FULL NAME) WITH DATE OF BIRTH, LAST KNOWN ADDRESS, DRIVER’S LICENSE, SOCIAL SECURITY NUMBER, AGE, SEX, ETC → HAVE I FULLY IDENTIFIED YOU?
HER: NO.
JUDGE: nodding head
SHE then said “Where am I going to get my mail forwarded to?” The postman said “Rent a PO Box”.
I made the comment to state “I’ve Baker-Acted the same woman here.” The session was dismissed. We would hear from the Senior Judge (Chief) in regards to the outcome.
I left while the Officer instructs that he will follow her and told her not to be nervous. He’s not going to write her up. I then said I’m going to head to the hardware store and she just handed me her credit card and said “Charge it”. I strongly put emphasis on her ‘CALL THE SECURITY SYSTEM NOW!’
6) The 2nd Wife (notice → 2nd wife, she would NOT acknowledge the children and flat-out refused to be a “Step Mother”) hired a lawyer to try to take back the “Executrix” and so on. The Judge denied.
JUDGE; OH WELL, CONTACT THE BUSINESS AND HAVE THE PARCELS REDIRECTED. NOT MY PROBLEM. YOU CANNOT GO TO THAT PROPERTY AT ALL! PERIOD! YOU’RE ON YOUR OWN!
JUDGE: May I see the Will? Probate?
(Judge is laughing still)
BAILIFF? GRAB SOMETHING FROM THE TOP PLEASE? ANY PILE. ANYTHING!
I then went back on the phone and called her back, she said she had a fax, and gave me the fax info, and I then called the Judge back and gave him HER fax number. And he relayed it up to New York.
I left before they did and oddly we all arrived at the property at the same time. While I was familiar with the homes in that subdivision, I got the perfect matching locks. Thankfully I knew there were 3 doors, Front, Side and Rear.
THAT WAS THE END OF HER!
1) The deceased was married before, they had 3 children.
4) When their dad waxed worse and worse and was in Hospice. His 2nd WIFE put a restraining order against all 3 children (what she didn’t know would come back to haunt her —- wait until the end)!
Every single docket (even those denied) I had printed out!, had to refill the feeder, refill the toner, at least twice! The desk was full of dockets! In fact, I had absolutely no idea what time it was (this location never closes, it’s opened 24/7/365.25. Apparently, I was there for the remainder of the day, alllllllll night, and it was now the next day nearing 8 AM!
JUDGE: MA’AM I AM TELLING YOU RIGHT NOW ALL THOSE DOCKETS WERE FILED BY YOU OR SOME LEGAL AIDE, LAWYER, OR WHOEVER HAD BIRD BRAINS TO MILK YOU FOR ALL YOUR WORTH!
JUDGE: I am not keeping it, I just want to read it.
JUDGE: YOU DON’T GET ANY MONEY. THAT’S ALL YOU’RE GOING TO GET.
JUDGE; I JUST DID! GO GET IT!
HER: HOLD IT! MY MAIL?
ME: Your Honor, she would like to request an injunction for
I told her right there, I am going to go to work and do a hard core research on everything. You go on and proceed with the Estate. ANYTHING OUT OF WHACK OR UNACCOUNTED FOR → WRITE IT DOWN → DO NOT REPORT JUST YET! Both Judges agreed and informed her “Listen to her, she’s one of the best there is around! She’s far better than a lawyer!
JUDGE: Go and get it and I will process the Injunction on the court.
2) I believe (I could be wrong) 21 years later, the deceased remarried.
ME: Your honor, yes, but I have not completed, I believe there’s now about 23 somewhere, give or take, I apologize your Honor, I am truly rattled out!
(He goes through at least 9 or 10 dockets listing everything - some of them were pretty hilarious because the people (even the Bailiff and clerks) laughed!)
SLAMS GAVEL.
3) The 2nd wife was a “POS” - she would NOT permit ANY of his children to have ANY involvement with their dad!
When he tapped me on the shoulder, I think I just provided them “Open Air” → I was so startled and literally jumped and fell backwards, thankfully the Deputy caught me before I hit the floor.
My recommendations? Contact the Funeral Home and inform that there’s family problems, and your Step Mother (or anyone else for that matter) has issues with you (or plus others). They will keep things under control!
That Judge did something I had never ever heard of, I am not sure if it was even legal but what he did was PERFECT - legally or partially legal or illegal - IT WAS WHAT THAT WOMAN NEEDED!
I just HUNG Up with her when the Judge called me back → he was SO PISSED OFF, it’s the same woman, she had her name changed twice and he did more research and he’s currently on the phone with xxxx County in New York with the Chief Judge up there. I gave him the information and he advised to stand by and wanting the fax number, he was going to send a fax once that Judge makes a move to revoke, to send two copies my way and one his way, with one of the copies sent to me was for the Executrix.
(They are arguing back and forth)
She wouldn’t, the Bailiffs told her to come. She kept sitting there like a total snot, so one of the Bailiff took her by the arm, and the Lawyer SMACKED the bailiff and yelled ‘DO NOT GRAB MY CLIENT!’ This was the first “outburst with a drama” I’ve ever seen. That Lawyer was handcuffed and taken away, so she was left with the other lawyer (who looked like a total wuss).
26) Chief Judge, he didn’t think it was possible, but for me to go ahead and fill the paperwork out (she became the 3rd person in my entire life span where I had to Baker Act) and he believed it would buy us time.
21) I then had the Officer there and went on the speaker phone and told the Chief Judge what this woman did, and he blurted out “OMG Are you serious?” The Officer had the information and gave him the court docket.
JUDGE: GOOD. YOU’RE GOING TO MAKE A LITTLE BONUS. I WANT YOU TO ESCORT THIS WOMAN HERE (EXECUTOR) TO THE RESIDENCY HERE (PROVIDED ADDRESS). AND SHE WILL GRAB WHATEVER SHE CAN FILL THE GARBAGE BAG WITH. MUST CONTAIN HER CLOTHING, SHOES, AND MAKEUP. THIS WOMAN HERE (GIVES NAME AND POINTS TO HER) CAN ONLY BE ON THE ROAD WAY AND STUFF HER CAR WITH AS MUCH AS SHE CAN. ANYTHING LEFT BEHIND WILL BE RETURNED BACK INSIDE. THE INJUNCTION IS IN EFFECT IMMEDIATELY. THAT WOMAN CANNOT ENTER INTO THE PROPERTY, ONCE ACQUIRED ALL BELONGINGS, CANNOT BE ANYWHERE (PAUSES) ONE THOUSAND AND FIVE HUNDRED FEET FROM THE PROPERTY! NO EXCEPTIONS
MA’AM I AM PRETTY SURE A LOT OF US IN MY COURTROOM HERE WOULD LIKE TO INJECT HER WITH SOMETHING…
MA’AM I AM TELLING YOU THE FACTS, RIGHT NOW, YOU HAVE HAD OVER 400 DOCKETS FILED THE PAST….
23) We finally put the deceased to rest!
ME: Getting up quietly and walking over to her,
HER: (GASPS!)
The woman (2nd wife) was arrested, is charged with felonies. She was so furious that she threw a chair which broke the camera, and her lawyer tried to hold her down and she punched him, and so they had to get 3 deputies to hold the crazed woman down! The Clerk was hit in the face with a stapler that was on the table.
I agreed to work with her and sort the mess out. I recommended that we both go down to the Probate → I had ways “to cut the corner” without having to shell out more money to the court. Once we arrived, I first went up to the Chief Judge’s Office.
(turns to me) IS THERE ANYMORE CASES?
Fortunately the New York Chief Judge faxed the revocation and nullification of 4 dockets she had filed! The Chief Judge here faxed the Injunction docket to him. That Judge in New York also filed the Court Injunction on this woman and BOTH Judges went to the Federal Judge to make it a Federal Order with all names (shown on the database ) and any future name changes!
Resumed what I was doing. I am dead serious when I tell everyone she was filing individually against the decease’s children. While the cases were closed and unfounded, but it was absurd! For example: She filed a “child” custodian of the 3rd child’s dog. She felt that “he was being treated as an animal than a “normal human being”. To give you the idea of the idiosyncratic things that 2nd wife was doing!
JUDGE: YES?
Her car was so full, I am not even sure how she was even going to see behind her (rear view mirror blocked) and the passenger window (passenger side mirror) being fully blocked. Because the mailman arrived. The Executor went through it, got the change of address and handed her mail and change of address. The Postman (a regular) got the update.
ME: Oh her! She’s not dead that I know of but I will follow up!
10) I was out of the office when the Assistant Manager paged me, they needed me back into the office right away! There was a serious problem!
I myself had heard enough of his “arguments” - he was actually siding with that 2nd wife and her lawyer until I said this “SIR? YOU HAVE BEEN DEBENCHED!” What he didn’t know was I processed the official court documentation and faxed it to the Chief Judge (New York) for “request of removal of Judge xxxx of the Probate” because “Probate was case was already closed and quoted and unquoted what he said “I will say when it’s closed.” That Judge was going to hold me in contempt and you could see on the video 2 bailiffs approaching him and showing him the paperwork. Oh man, this guy had an attitude, cursing with profanities and so on.
HER: I HAVE THAT RIGHT!
JUDGE: I would be very honored to be a Royal Highest but is there anything you want to say?
We were waiting there for an hour for her to show up, and he said if she doesn’t show up, she won’t be able to get her stuff at all. And then she shows up with the City Police following her! Well, apparently she went to the Police Station and “lied” or “some type of a sob story” who knows and she was ‘so fearful’ of going home (the station was only 6 blocks away).
JUDGE: DID YOU JUST HEAR THAT WOMAN? GOSH! I LOVE HER! SHE’S GOT MORE (BLEEP) THAN YOU DO! AND YOU KNOW, SHE’S ABSOLUTELY RIGHT! MY DECISION IS FINAL!
(People - gasping)
THIS WAS NOT THE END OF HER!
JUDGE: Thanking the Bailiff.
The Clerk went on the screen, and the rescheduling would be needed. The Probate Judge here informed her that “no rescheduling is needed. The Federal Judge has now issued xxxxx (name) the Federal Order. She cannot be involved with any courts in any states.” He was holding the paperwork and it was already signed. (From Peachtree Federal Courthouse - in GEORGIA) Then another Clerk handed her the paperwork. She gasped. And then called for that lawyer to come and handed him the paperwork. She then said “I am sorry sir, but the case cannot be rescheduled or filed. Per the Federal Orders.”
BACK IN SESSION
HER: YES
ME: folding arms and giving the Judge the eye!
(court room howling with laughter)
JUDGE: Does she have any vested access to the property.
JUDGE _________ (pauses) ___________ That woman, you know, you had to go and help her.
15) The 2nd wife tried to take control over everything, she delayed everything in sight! This went on for nearly 6 months now (I’ve contacted the court multiple times, we could not keep the body in the storage vault any longer and he needed to be buried).
JUDGE: Not my problem, you can go rent an apartment, or motel!
I ASKED YOU A QUESTION - I WANT AN ANSWER!
JUDGE: GRAB WHATEVER YOU CAN IN 5 MINUTES AND TAKE IT TO THE (CITY) POLICE OFFICER AND HE WILL PERSONALLY HAND IT TO HER. AND SHE CANNOT EVEN PUT HER FOOT ON THE PROPERTY!
While we were heading back to the courtroom, the Judge saw us, and then he said “IS THAT EVERYTHING?” I said No your honor they will have to go down after we pile a couple of them on the table in the room to get the rest!
::::: I go with her and had the Bailiff to go with her :::
JUDGE; DO YOU HAVE YOUR CAR?
19) Everyone (family, friends, Vets, etc) showed up. Just before the Minister was to officiate, the 2nd wife stormed in - SCREAMING AND YELLING! She even called the POLICE! I had my boys to remove this woman and take her outside.
PLEASE STEP FORWARD TO MIDDLE OF COURT:
(Bailiff) TAKES ONE FROM THE PILE
I then waved my hand the Judge saw this and Executor stood up. I nodded my head.
HER: YES (with much pride)
JUDGE: GO TO THE DAMN POST OFFICE AND PUT A FORWARDING ADDRESS ON IT IMMEDIATELY
I grabbed the kitchen garbage bag and put all of her underwear, bras, and socks.
HER: LIAR!
First thing I did was PHONE the Chief Judge, apparently the first one retired earlier and the one that dealt with that woman in the court room WAS the Chief Judge (current). HE WAS PISSED. He told me he would get back with me, and if I could touch bases with that other (slip of tongue) dead woman and find out the update from her and get back with him.
HER: BUT IF YOU …
I’m glad I had a couple of 55 gallon Contractor bags. You could imagine the shock and reaction of her clothing and shoes she had! She had 4 bedroom closet worth of shoes, clothing (high end). The Officer just pulled in the Garbage can and tucked the Contractor Bag inside. We just grabbed and threw them in. packed them up as much as we could and the Officer tied it up. I did find a Amazon Box, so I just literally shoved the make up in the box, the cheap tacky jewelry - I just said “we don’t have to but let’s be nice” slammed the tacky jewelry in the box.
SIR? ARE YOU FINISHED FOR THE DAY?
OFFICER: YES SIR?
I was able to program it and to permit her to change the code.
JUDGE: tells me to move and gets into the chair, reads the dockets (left and right) and the one just printed out.
18) Due to a new employee, she saw the message of the funeral services - and realized it wasn’t published, so she proceeded to alert the newspaper and it got published! ARGH!!!
(laughter)
27) She came back fuming after she found out the Big Judge revoked everything, she even had a private company already out there with the back hoe, a hearse, etc. My groundsmen ordered them off the property.
Came in through the side door and I seated myself at the Jury Chair. The Judge saw me, and he finished off the case he was doing.
OH, SO NOW YOU’RE TELLING ME I AM A LIAR? WANT PROOF. I WILL GIVE YOU PROOF RIGHT NOW!
HER: YES I DO
HER: I have the right to file and process in court.
JUDGE: MA’AM DO YOU SEE THIS PILES HERE?
Once again I almost put another hole in through the roof, I was really, really tired and very sleep deprived and extremely jumpy!
(people laughing the Judge laughs too)
Apparently the hearing was now in place, the Judge put the case aside and told the Bailiffs to go downstairs and get me. Honey! I had no idea what time it was, if it was day or night! They got me, and I was somewhat in a disarray, but no time to fix myself up. Followed them all the way to the court room.
IF YOU GET MARRIED, YOU WILL NOT BE PERMITTED TO COME INTO ANY COURTHOUSES. YOU ARE BARRED AND BANNED FROM SHOWING UP! PERIOD! GIVEN ON THIS DAY OF XX/XX/XXXX.
HER: SILENCE
17) I contacted the siblings to alert them and to pick a time and day (completed) and we will have the service, we will not unfortunately have an open casket due to time lapse.
HER: It’s in my trunk of my car.
ME: ___________ Sir? Dead woman?
You do have every right to attend the funeral.
Please stand over there (podium).
We then returned.
ONE WOMAN IN THE BACK SAID “YOUR HONOR I WANT A WORD WITH HER PLEASE!”
I place a paperweight where he left off.
The secretary gave me a “privilege” access, to an office down stairs, where I could pull up anything I wanted or needed and can print it out in the room with no charge. She was aware of the massive headache this 2nd wife was doing.
Yes, she did have the will updated (2 years before his health declined), because she was placed as Executor when their mom’s health was failing years and years ago.
I asked her “DOES THE XXX HAVE ANY PART OF THE ESTATE IF SO WHAT?”